I don't see the point of two men (or whatever gender) fighting over one girl when there are so many, many others out there. I realize that other people may feel differently, and may even be flattered or get a thrill from being pursued so hard. And seriously, what do people not understand about personal opinions? I'm simply stating, if I were Hailey, the rude butting Alex aside, the constant desperate following me around, the barrage of unasked for gifts, would be red flags for me that this person is pushy, obsessive, and probably just as arrogant as Alex is. But I personally consider it rude to interfere if the one you want is obviously not interested, and has their sights on someone else. Neither of them obviously have "exclusive rights" to the other. Hailey on the other hand is obviously not into the farmer at all, until the farmer starts following her around, gifting her stuff, etc. Alex flirts with the farmer, okay then, pursue away. It's one thing if one of them shows interest in another person. What I was saying was that if Alex or Hailey are into each other and neither of them are looking for another person to date, then (again, imo) butting in and interrupting their fling is kind of uncool. But it's on THEM to decide to pursue other people. Not that Hailey or Alex should never look at other potential partners, especially if they aren't committed yet. It might be something if there was a pre-established friendship and Alex came to the farmer saying "Hey, I really like her and we're friends so I'd appreciate it if you supported me and held off from pursuing her."' But to simply declare that all other guys should set aside their love interest in a woman because the local narcissist has shown interest in her and she's shown some initial interest back is fairly entitled. Dude can't even be bothered to remember the farmer's name.
It is fully within her rights to date as many men as she desires until she decides that she wants to be exclusive with one of them.Ĭhoosing to be one of the men pursuing such a woman isn't "bullying" in any way, it's dating.Īnd out of all the men in Stardew Valley, Alex is the one least deserving of pity when it comes to relationships. She may choose to flirt with none of them, one of them, or many of them.īut a woman choosing to flirt with and invite the advances of one man is not a declaration that he possesses exclusive rights to flirt with her until he decides that he isn't interested. EVERY woman has at least one, if not ten or more, men who is interested in them. There is nothing selfish about pursuing someone who is single. Trying to "steal" a partner from someone is pretty low imo. He tells me he's staying in shape so he can look good for me and says I look radiant which is sweet.īut damn did that date leave a bad taste in my mouth. He's useful as a husband, chips in and works hard in his own way. I married him anyway against my better judgement.
#Haley stardew valley manual#
I'm a hardcore farmer who rises at 6 am EVERY DAMN DAY and works until 2 am on most days either foraging, mining, farming crap, livestock stuff, fishing or whatever the hell else there is to do to run a successful small farm, Alex, my best himbo, do you really think a fucking salad will sate my huge manual labour calorific deficit? You're a gym bro, YOU of all people should know I need a goddamn meaty steak with huge piles of chips (fries) and the beefiest root vegetables you can find. After an, at best, lukewarm courtship, I thought, finally! Here's the romance I was hoping for!īoy was it dashed to pieces. I felt my heart pitter-patter when Alex sent me an invitation to meet at the saloon at night.
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